How is NYC Matchmaking Group different from dating apps?

Dating apps rely on algorithms and superficial swiping. We take a completely different approach — every match is hand-selected by a professional matchmaker who has personally interviewed both parties. We vet for compatibility, values, lifestyle, and relationship readiness.

What kind of clients does NYC Matchmaking Group work with?

We work with accomplished professionals across New York City — executives, entrepreneurs, attorneys, physicians, creatives, and finance professionals. Our clients typically range from their late 20s to 60s and are looking for a serious, committed relationship.

How much does matchmaking in New York City cost?

Our matchmaking packages are customized based on your goals, timeline, and the level of service you need. Pricing is discussed during your private consultation — there is no obligation and no pressure.

Do you only match people within NYC?

While we are based in New York City, our network extends nationally and internationally through our parent company, Lyons Elite. If your ideal partner might be in another city, we can absolutely accommodate that.

How long does it take to find a match in NYC?

On average, our NYC clients receive their first quality introduction within 4-6 weeks of starting. We prioritize finding the right match over a fast match.

What is the best matchmaking service in New York City?

NYC Matchmaking Group, a division of Lyons Elite Matchmaking, is consistently rated as one of the top matchmaking services in New York City. Founded by Emily Lyons, named Entrepreneur of the Year 2024, we offer personalized matchmaking for accomplished NYC professionals across Manhattan, Brooklyn, and the greater metro area.

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Dating in New York shouldn't feel impossible

You've built an incredible career. You've got a life most people dream about. But when it comes to finding a real, lasting relationship in New York City — the apps aren't cutting it, the setups from friends have run dry, and you don't have time to waste on dates that go nowhere.

NYC Matchmaking Group was founded for exactly this reason. We work exclusively with accomplished professionals across Manhattan, Brooklyn, and the greater NYC area who want a matchmaker who actually understands the New York dating landscape — the pace, the expectations, and what it takes to build something meaningful here.

As a division of Lyons Elite Matchmaking, we bring over a decade of experience connecting high-caliber individuals with partners who match their ambition, values, and lifestyle. Every introduction is intentional. Every match is personal.

Matchmaking Across Every Borough

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Whether you live in a Manhattan penthouse or a Brooklyn brownstone, our matchmakers know the NYC dating scene inside and out.

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Dating in NYC

Why Dating Apps Don't Work for NYC Professionals

You're a high-performing professional in one of the world's most competitive cities. You've optimized everything in your life — your career, your fitness, your social circle. So why does your love life feel like the one area you can't crack? The answer isn't you. It's the tools you're using. Dating apps were designed for volume, not quality. They reward superficial snap judgments — a split-second swipe based on a photo and a 500-character bio. For accomplished New Yorkers who know exactly what they want, this model is fundamentally broken. The algorithm doesn't know that you need someone who understands your 70-hour work weeks, who shares your ambition, or who won't be intimidated by your success. A professional matchmaker does.

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Matchmaking

What to Expect from a Professional Matchmaker in Manhattan

Hiring a matchmaker in New York City isn't like signing up for another dating service. It's a deeply personal experience that starts with a real conversation about who you are and what you actually need in a partner — not just what looks good on paper. During your initial consultation, your matchmaker will explore your relationship history, your lifestyle, your values, and the qualities that matter most to you. From there, every introduction is hand-selected, personally vetted, and intentionally curated. Unlike apps where you're sorting through hundreds of profiles, a professional matchmaker in Manhattan does the work for you.

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Relationships

The 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes Successful New Yorkers Make

After matching thousands of accomplished professionals in New York City, we've noticed the same patterns that keep brilliant, successful people single far longer than they need to be. The first is treating dating like a business negotiation — approaching every date with a checklist instead of genuine curiosity. The second is waiting for the "perfect time" to prioritize your love life. In NYC, there will never be a perfect time. The third is confusing chemistry with compatibility. Fourth, many NYC professionals unconsciously date people who mirror their lifestyle rather than complement it. And fifth — assuming you can figure this out alone.

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